Saturday, December 21, 2013

Soundtrack Saturday - Christmas Edition

It is the winter solstice today, but 70 degrees here in Memphis! I prefer cold weather, so I'm not particularly happy about this. Regardless of the weather, it seems like the perfect time to share some of my favorite Christmas songs. I tried to narrow it down to just one, but that's definitely not possible. I love Christmas music, and this year I've been drawn to the old classics. They make me wish I still knew how to swing dance!

Brenda Lee - Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree

This song is about as close as we get to snow for Christmas. Someday I hope to live somewhere it actually snows in December!
Dean Martin - Let it Snow!


These are two of my favorite Christmas hymns. I can't sing O Holy Night to save my life, but that doesn't stop me from trying to hit that high note every single time! Trying to pick a version of this song is like trying to choose a favorite cupcake flavor - they are all so good!

Celtic Woman - O Holy Night

If you haven't heard of The Piano Guys before, consider this your introduction. They are seriously talented. After you listen to this, go listen to their version of Carol of the Bells or their Lord of the Rings Medley. Or any of their arrangements. Trust me you won't be disappointed!

The Piano Guys - Angels We Have Heard on High

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

I bought a $50 planner and it changed my life

One of the biggest decisions I make every December is what planner I will use for the upcoming year. Every year I go in search of the perfect planner, and every year I am disappointed by what I find. My ideal planner is a one page per day design with both an hourly scheduling section and a to-do list section, plus month-at-a-glance and year-at-a-glance pages. Evidently the people who make planners don't realize what level of busy my life usually is, because I have never found one with the detail that I need.

Enter The Day Designer...

Not available at your run-of-the-mill office supply store

About a month ago, I was poking around on Pinterest and I found a pin of something called the Day Designer. I don't remember what the description was or who pinned it, but I clicked on it and it took me to the Etsy shop of Whitney English. Suddenly, angels started singing the Hallelujah Chorus and a light from heaven shone down upon my computer. THIS was the planner of my dreams. Exactly the layout I had been looking for - it even went from 5am to 9pm instead of the usual 8-6 time slots. The price was the only thing that kept me from buying it that instant. $50 for a planner? It seemed like an awful lot of money. I thought about it over several days and decided it would be worth the money to have a planner that was exactly what I was looking for.

LOOK AT ALL THE OPPORTUNITIES TO PLAN!!!!
It's even got a thought of the day and a place to write one thing you are thankful for!!!!
I'll do another post on how I use the daily pages. Actually, I'll probably do several
planner related posts, because I love it so much.
What I didn't realize at the time was that the Day Designer was more than just your average planner. In the description on Etsy, it said that there were worksheets in the front to help plan out your year, set goals, etc. So I assume she means maybe a financial planning sheet, maybe a long term goals sheet, nothing special and probably nothing I would really use.

Oh, how wrong I was!

When I finally got my new (beautifully packaged) Day Designer in the mail, I opened the cover and was immediately confronted with the realization that these were not your average planning pages. As it turns out, Whitney English has made a business out of helping people develop their personal brands and define their goals, passions, and strengths. She even created a webinar to walk through the Day Designer and how to use the worksheets in the front. She specifically targets women who are creative entrepreneurs, but it really is applicable to everyone, especially if you are in the midst of a major life transition (looking at you, fellow twentysomethings!).

Let me tell you, I was SO FREAKING EXCITED! One of my goals for the end of this year was to do exactly the sort of reflecting and planning Whitney had in mind when she created the Day Designer. With my classroom career behind me, and my clinical rotations beginning in January, I knew some serious soul searching was in my near future. Now I get to do soul searching with worksheets!!!!


How I spent my afternoon - coffee and planning for the future

So today, I went to my new favorite coffee shop (Tamp & Tap), ordered me up a Cannonball Express and some Nutella toast, and began my journey with my Day Designer.

Lovely blank pages ready to be filled with my hopes and dreams for the future.

The worksheets basically take me from brainstorming my big dreams to defining my passions, strengths, and goals.

Narrowing down your goals into 3 Big Ideas that define who you are
and what you want to accomplish in life
"Dream big dreams" - writing down all the crazy dreams and hopes,
even if they seem impossible
Defining core values based on how you spend your time and money.
There will probably be a lot of feelings involved throughout the whole process,
but I think this part will be the most difficult.
Listing your passions. One thing Whitney said in the webinar that I really liked
 was that not every passion has to become a career.
You should keep some passions for just you to enjoy. 
As I watched the webinar, I realized this was not something I was going to do in one day.  So I've decided to do one worksheet each day, so that I have time to really sit and think through each step of this personal development process.

The final project, where it all comes together. Even though I won't
share most of the worksheets on this blog (they are just too personal
to be putting all over the internet), I will post this one when I finish it.

Even if you don't need or want a planner of this magnitude (it's not a small planner, and if you aren't super busy like me, you probably don't need something this extensive), I highly encourage you to consider buying just the webinar download from Whitney's Etsy shop and doing some of the exercises. I thought people were kidding when they said in their reviews that this planner changed their lives. They were definitely not kidding. This planner is going to change my life. I can feel it. And that is so exciting!

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

The Race That Wasn't

This was supposed to be a post about the race. I was supposed to be telling you all about my running and how cold it was and what my finishing time was. There were supposed to be pictures of the race, of me celebrating with my friends and parents at the finish line.

But there are none of those things, because the race was cancelled.

No race day for me!
Friday night, Memphis experienced a rather spectacular - and much earlier than normal - ice storm. Around here we usually don't get that kind of weather until the end of January. Except this year. The roads never got that bad, but tree limbs were falling and lots of people were without power. So St. Jude cancelled the race.

Who let Grumpy Cat be in charge of the weather?

When I got the news, I was texting another friend who was also running the half marathon. We were shocked. We knew the weather was bad, but we never expected the race to get cancelled. Not with all the planning that went into it. Not with 20,000 runners from across the country and around the world already in Memphis. But there it was. First on the news, then on Facebook, then via text, then via email. The race was cancelled.

Well said, Charlie Brown


I WAS DEVASTATED. After all the work I put in, all those miles I didn't want to run but ran anyway, all that time. I was ready to finish the race and be done with running. My friend Ashley was also supposed to be running her first half marathon, and we pretty much spent all night Friday and most of the day Saturday moping about our houses, texting each other about how upset we were, and online shopping in our pajamas. (We were supposed to be studying for our finals on Tuesday.)

Me on Saturday


Of course, the most important thing is that the money the Heroes raised still goes to St. Jude, so they can continue doing what they do best - caring for children with cancer and researching new potential cures. St. Jude, being as great as they are, have done a wonderful job communicating with us about what our options are now. I chose to have my finisher's medal and gift bag donated to a family at St. Jude, because I don't deserve to have it since I didn't get to race. All of the runners have been given the option to transfer our registration to one of three other races benefiting St. Jude in the coming months. I put in to have mine transferred to the Nashville Country Music Marathon at the end of April. I should know by next week if I will be going. If that doesn't work out, Baylor has a half marathon in the spring and I will travel to Waco for that.

And so the training continues. As soon as I know which race I'll be running, I'll draw up a new training schedule. I don't want to keep running. I wanted to be done with this. But I've got to run SOMETHING so all this training didn't go to waste. Also so I can hang the 13.1 ornament I bought on my tree...next Christmas (sooooo sad).

Thank you to everyone who supported me in this crazy (and apparently never ending) endeavor! Thank you to everyone who donated to my Heroes fundraiser! 

You cannot simply finish a half marathon.


Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Where did November go??

I am still slightly amazed that it is already December. I'm not sure November actually happened - it went by so fast! So much happened last month that I felt like I was flying faster than the speed of light through each day.  Here is a photo tour of some of the things I've been up to in November.

The girls at Electric Cowboy for Michelle's birthday
Tour of St. Jude with my Phi Delta Chi brothers - just the motivation
I needed when I was at a low point in my training

Girls night out with my Lifegroup - Dessert at The Melting Pot

Anwesa's birthday brunch at Monsieur DeMarcus

Full on fangirling for The Day of the Doctor

P3 Pinning Ceremony - I have my nuclear rotation with this awesome lady in January

I don't know where I would be without Ashley and Aleia

More post-pinning ceremony fun

Accidentally matching with Mom on thanksgiving
Put up my Christmas tree - there may be an ornament themed post in the future


All of this in addition to finishing up my final semester of classes before kicking off rotations in January has kept me busy busy busy!

More importantly, race day is Saturday and it is going to be FREEZING COLD!!! Literally, a cold front is coming through tomorrow and it's going to sleet/ice/precipitate and drop down to the low 30s. I may need ice skates for the race, but regardless of the weather, I will be running 13.1 miles.

My awesome boss Cecilia over at MommiesRun wrote a great encouraging post about having a NO FREAK OUT ZONE about the race and reminding us why we are running. We are running for the kids of St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. These kids are going through much worse than running around in below freezing temps. So I can run around in the cold for a couple hours.

And then I get to go home and study for my finals, which are on Tuesday. So obviously, I have been procrastinating by writing this blog post. Now back to learning about Parkinson's disease treatments.



Sunday, December 1, 2013

Soundtrack Sunday!

Well, the race is one week away and I only feel about 70% prepared. Today I ran 10 miles, the longest distance I’ll run before Saturday.  I know, theoretically, I am physically capable of running 13.1 miles. But I don't quite feel mentally prepared to run 13.1 miles. This sounds like a job for The Most Motivational Song Ever!



I think “Don’t Stop Believing” is one of those songs people of my generation are just born knowing.  Kind of like we just sort of know “Bohemian Rhapsody” or “Wanted Dead or Alive” without ever consciously learning the words or remembering the first time we heard that song. It’s imprinted in our collective DNA and permanently etched in our brains, ready to be belted out off key and at top volume at a moment's notice.

I really need to do a "my life lately post" since I've been doing such a bad job at posting regularly in November. Sorrysorry!

In other news, this is my last week of class EVER!!!!!!!